Who’s New?

It’s always easiest to talk to the people you already know. Many people frantically search for a familiar face when the first enter the room at a networking event.
Instead, make it a point to meet all, or at least 4, new people before settling in with previous acquaintances. Better yet, take the new people with you to meet your friends and associates. A new person would love to hear, “Come on, I’ll introduce you to some of my friends!” And your cordiality may make them one of your most active business contacts!

Networking – Don’t Just Stand There

It’s not enough to just attend a networking event. You need to interact, and you may need to start it. Not sure how? Feeling unsure of yourself? Try these ideas.

  • Smile and extend your hand. Most people will accept your invitation for a handshake. What to say? Easy!

“Hi, my name is ________________.” Most people will answer with their own name.
But wait! There’s more! Don’t just leave it at that.

  • The next phrase is, “What is your business?” Again, most people will be happy to talk about themselves. After all, it’s what they know best. OK, that’s nice, but you still haven’t told them about what you do.
  • When they finish telling you about their business, ask for a business card. While you accept their card, continue by telling about your business, even if they don’t ask. This is a good, non-pushy time to give them your information.
More Ideas
  • Look for someone who is doing something they may need help with. Everyone will appreciate your courtesy.
  • If you’re walking in with someone, ask them if they’ve attend an event with this organization before.
  • Another good opener is, “Hi, my name is _________________. I don’t think we’ve met.”

One last tip. Do NOT go to your seat and just sit there. Always keep moving around the room until the meeting begins. You’ll meet a lot more people by interacting than by sitting and waiting for someone to take pity on you and sit down to talk with you. The movers and shakers do just that! Move! Shake hands! Don’t just stand there!

Julie Mockerman is the first Virtual Assistant in Muskegon. She founded Brookwater Group Virtual Assistants to help business owners with things they don’t have time for or just don’t like to do. She is a member of the Muskegon Chamber of Commerce, Alliance of Women Entrepreneurs, Michigan Virtual Assistants, and BNI Lakeshore Professionals. Check out www.BrookwaterGroup.com, call 231-683-1246 or send email to Julie@brookwatergroup.com

Networking – The Best Marketing Technique

Almost everyone knows that networking is the best marketing technique. However, many people have not fine-tuned their networking skills to the point that they’re consistently getting results.

Currently, I attribute the majority of my success to my membership in a BNI group. BNI is the acronym for Business Network International. It is a worldwide organization formed expressly for helping members refer business to other members.

There are certain steps you can follow, however, to make your networking more beneficial, both for you and for those with whom you’re networking.

First, always arrive at meetings or activities fifteen minutes early. There are a few reasons for doing this.
1) Most of the time, the meeting coordinators are rushing around trying to tie up the last few loose ends. An offer to help is seldom declined.
2) This is the best time for networking. Once the meeting or activity has begun, there is little time for real interaction. Try to exchange business cards with at least 5 people during this 15 minute time frame.
3) If you arrive early, you have a chance to meet more people, because they’re not already fully engaged in a conversation with someone else.

Register for a networking event this week, or look at www.bni.com to find out about chapters in your area.

Julie Mockerman is a Virtual Assistant, interacting with over 35 clients, and working with people in over 40 countries. Full profile at www.guru.com.

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